Golden days of my native place (written by me and published in The Hindu , Open page ono9.9.12)
The memories of my childhood
days spent at Natchiar Koil village in Thanjavur district of Tamil Nadu are
still fresh in my mind. Such memories led me to compare the existing situation
in India,
in general, and in villages, in particular, with the past. An analysis left me
sad for the undesirable transformation which India has undergone over the last
few decades. Those were really golden days.
As children, we didn’t know that
our village was famous for the Mariamman temple, the Perumal (Vishnu) and
Natchiar temple, for the world famous brass lamp factories, for Nagaswaram
vidwans like Raghavan Pillai and for betal leaves. Our village, like any other
village of yesteryear in Tamil Nadu, had an Agraharam, where Brahmins lived,
the Muslim streets surrounding the mosque and the colony where the Scheduled
Castes lived. The Brahmin youth were working in offices, the Muslims were
landlords and traders and the Scheduled Castes mostly served the other
communities in various capacities. But we never witnessed communal clashes or
disputes. We lived in total harmony. Everyone treated the other with dignity.
All community leaders participated in the meetings held to discuss village
matters.
The Mariamman temple festival was
celebrated for 10 days at a stretch. It attracted crowds from all surrounding
villages and towns. Small traders from all over Thanjavur district participated
in the shanty, spreading their wares in the lanes around the temple. Children,
and even adults, used to crowd the shops for the whole day. Things which
attracted the women were vessels of all types, ready made clothes and
kitchenware. The children liked seeni mittai, a sweetmeat in different
shapes and colours. Jav mittai was an attraction as well. The vendor
would sing songs to attract children and pull out the colourful, sweet
semi-liquid material which was elastic enough to be moulded from the bamboo
which was holding it and out of which he would make birds, animals, watches,
insects, etc., as per our demand and stick the design on our hands. Girls used
to crowd ribbon, bangle and wooden and papier-mâché doll shops and boys
thronged shops selling kites and tops. There were bio-scopes through which we
can see “cinema bits” and the merry-go-rounds, and folk arts performances
provided us enough entertainment.
The best part of the festival
was the display of religious tolerance. All Muslim families wrote letters to
their relatives living afar, inviting them for the Mariamman festival. Every
Muslim home used to have so many guests during those days. The same way, people
of different faiths arrived for the three-day float festival of the Natchiar
temple, making it grand by their presence, participating in the festival
activities organised outside the temple. I still remember the regular badminton
practice given by my father to Brahmin boys on the mosque ground in the
evenings.
Hindu women used to bring their
babies suffering from fever to the mosques in the evening and would wait for
the Mullahs to come out after prayer and get them cured of illnesses. The
Mullahs would recite Arabic prayers, and bless the babies.
Muslim families always threw a
separate vegetarian feast the day after their family weddings for Hindu
friends. On Pongal days, all agricultural labourers used to bring fruits,
flowers and hens for the Muslim landlords and they, in turn, were given
dresses, money and food. They were allowed to decorate the cattle as they
liked.
In short, everyone faithfully
followed his/her religion and was tolerant of other religions. They never
talked of conversions. As children, we never bothered to know about the
classmates’ religion. We never heard of untouchability during our school days.
In the big bazaar of our village, Hindu and Muslim traders conducted business
without any clash of interests or rivalry.
Our village had Panchayat-run
Tamil medium primary and secondary schools. Private schools were unheard of.
Students belonging to the rich, middle and poor classes studied in the same
school. Our teachers never demanded but always commanded the respect of not
only students but also the village elders. The headmaster was always consulted
by the panchayat leaders in village matters. Out teachers inculcated in us the
values of religious tolerance, patriotism, secularism, respect for elders and
honesty. Independence
and Republic days were celebrated with patriotism. I still remember some Hindu
teachers giving free tuition to poor Muslim students and some Muslim landlords
helping poor Brahmin boys in their higher education.
Life was simple and stress-free.
We spent our childhood playing out on the dry riverbed, the open ground for the
entire evenings. We played in rainy and summer seasons. We played in mud and
clay, but were never discouraged from playing for a long time and we never felt
sick because of dust or pollution. We never had heavy homework. Going to school
was fun since we could meet all our friends and exchange our eatables. We
studied only for the examinations. English was introduced only from Standard
VI. Yet many of us could get higher educational qualifications and a decent
status in our life.
I can go on and on, with the
memories of my village life. My heart bleeds when I now hear news of loss of
human lives, destruction of business and property taking place, in the name of
religion. It is painful to see responsible political leaders making hate
speeches about different communities, owners refusing to rent out their homes
to particular communities, children in village schools suffering the indignity
of untouchability and neighbours in apartments in the cities boycotting one
another on the basis of religion. How backward have we become in social harmony
and religious tolerance? Our mindset has become so rigid against peaceful
co-existence. Such an ugly transformation is not only confined to the cities
but has spread to villages, which had all along protected the rich Indian
culture. Will India
revert to the golden days?
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